Browngirl Speaks

We finished our Earth Day lapbook. Also, we planted peppers and basil in organic soil and reused food and beverage containers. Cross your fingers for those because I have never tried to grow anything.

Here are Zion’s simple tips(in his own words)for saving the earth:
*3Rs- reduce, reuse, recycle (mom’s note - the milk and juice cartons exemplify all 3)
*take short showers
*plant tress and flowers for growing
*turn off the lights

Last week I clicked a link in a tweet and was reminded of why I went natural over ten years ago: to have healthier hair. The link was t a post about a bantu knot out by curlynikki. Her mane is just lovely and so healthy. I was immediately captivated by this site and could feel a hair revival commencing.

I’ll admit that I don’t read others’ blogs for more than a few minutes at a time. However, curlynikki had me so caught up that I wanted to somehow take her site to bed and snuggle up with it like a cozy blanket. I couldn’t do that, but I did run out for a fresh avocado to make an avocado mask and some apple cider vinegar to use as a rinse.

My hair loss was excessive and my own damn fault. I wash weekly-detangle maybe every other week- and my style is typically a wash n’ go. The styling choice has been the culprit for inconsistent and stunted growth for all of these years. You see, I went natural when it was still not very popular in my neck of the woods-”down south”. So, proper products and educational resources on caring for natural black hair were very scant. I held it down amidst that issue and those constantly questioning why I would do such a thing. And then there were those always with the same comment about how they’d go natural if their hair looked like mine which was/is equally annoying, but that’s a whole other post. Over time any naysaying became compliments and I thought my hair was always…cute. Well, now I see that there are tins of blogs, websites and forums for naturally curly girls like myself and wonder how I wound up sleeping on this. I’ve been aware of naturallycurly.com for several years but not of its community forum.

Somewhere along the last 12 years of being a curly girl, I stopped caring. My hair was just that-hair. But it’s more than that. It is very much an extension of me and often defines me. And I’m okay with that. I’m cool with folks saying: “Girl, I thought that was you; I saw that hair.” I just need to get back to honoring this crown of curls resting on my head.

I’ve also made another discovery. Teri at Tightly Curly, my namesake and new curly hair guru. She had me on a mad hunt for that Denman D4 brush and I found one for about $13 on eBay. I’ve quickly learned from her that I’ve been using the right products but not the right technique. Curlynikki also gives a great suggestion for a style to promote growth-the twist n’ curl and she’s great for the product junkies.

my avocado mask recipe:
1 ripe avocado (be sure to remove the seed, duh!, so you don’t have to shake out bits from your hair or nearly eff up your blender like me)
1 banana
1 tbs. local honey
1 tbs. evoo
I also included some lavender, rosemary and peppermint essential oils. These are not cheap and not necessary. If you have some on hand then they’re a great addition. An egg white would’t hurt either, I simply forgot to add it. Once you slather it all over your head, cover with a plastic cap or bag and sit under a hooded or bonnet dryer for about 30-45 minutes then rinse thoroughly. I’m looking forward to trading in my hooded dryer for a bonnet style. Those are just easier to sit comfortably under and not be so contained.

If you’re a curly girl or wannabe, naturallycurly.com is a great starting point. You can learn your curl type and what products to choose that are most suitable.

It’s been a few weeks since I’ve shared one of my shopping trips, so here goes…

1st transaction:
6 Nivea lip balms @ 2/$5 = $15
1 Airwick mini freshmatic = $4.99
1 Softsoap body scrub = $4.99
-$4/ $20 CVS coupon
-$1 x 5 Nivea lip balm coupons
-$4 Airwick coupon
-$1 Softsoap coupon
Total = $12.45 (used a $10.68 GC from a botched trans last week and $1.77 cash)
received $5 ECB for $15 Nivea purchase and $4.49 ECB for Softsoap
saved $21.94

2nd transaction:
2 Garnier Nutritioniste towelettes @ $5 = $10
1 Garnier Nutritioniste Exfoliating gel cleanser = $5
-$1 x 3 Garnier coupons
-$9.49 ECBs from prev. trans.
Total = $2.90 (used cash)
received $5 ECB for $15 Garnier purchase
saved $15.46

Grand total OOP = $4.67
Total shelf price = $52.75

All my music geek comrades have been asking me about J*Davey. My response is always: “I just can’t seem to get into them”. This is a duo that I want to like…I’m supposed to like. And finally, finally, I’ve heard the song and seen the video that just may have converted me.