Random #2: I’m not sure lowering the legal drinking age is a good idea. I understand the notion that this stems from– a sort of reverse psychology approach. Yeah, college freshman will have easier access thus, presumably, making it less enticing to get sloshed. Maybe fewer young and blissfully ignorant girls will be sucked into the party of the frats notorious for having every type of alcohol imaginable and playing every drinking AND finding themselves in some compromising position or worse. But for all the pros, there are cons. High schoolers are already part of the binge drinking culture; this would just make it way too easy. Or perhaps the advocates of lowering the drinking age think the same positive effects will happen for that age group. Though, it seems only college students are factoring into this theory and even that’s not a guarantee.

Random #3: I’m really pissed that Alicia Sacramone was robbed in such a shameless manner of the bronze medal for the individual vault. That damn Cheng Fei chic F****** FELL!!! I don’t care about a higher degree of difficulty, she FELL ON HER KNEES! The execution score was too high. Alicia should have gotten the bronze. They even had Bela Karolyi fired up stating that it was “a ripoff”.

And speaking of shady business in Olympic gymnastics, those Chinese gymnasts, with Cheng Fei as the exception, ARE NOT 16! The Olympic committee has been bamboozled. They are great gymnasts but they have not and will not meet the minimum age requirement this year. It ain’t right…

So, anyone interested can head over to my other spot to see what’s up in mom’s kindergarten class of one. Of course, I’m still here.

Now let me interject with a bit of back story on The Med. This is basically the poor folks hospital. Now, I’m not implying that this girl is poor, but that they just don’t have a high standard for leaving folks with their dignity intact. Yes, I gave birth in this very facility because they also handle high risk pregnancies. That and traumas are their specialty. But, if you have no insurance and no money they will take you but in a “no, you go in around the back” kinda way. My birthing experience was not the most pleasant, but that’s a story for another day, maybe.

Anyway, so the young lady, a first time mother FYI, waits about 45 minutes when she feels the need to go to the ladies’ room. She feels the need to push and, naturally, does though she’s trying to stop because she can feel the baby’s head crowning. She’s on the f****** toilet! The baby girl is born and she calls for nurses to help her. What does a hospital spokesperson say? something like: nature has its own plans not like our typical standard of care. Please note that this is where I cocked my head to the side and crossed my eyes at the TV. I looked at the Mr. and said that is f***** up.

They interviewed the new mom and she didn’t seem angry. I’m sure her focus was on her new angel and being thankful it all worked out. So, I’m pissed for her because that is some bull****….

I called their customer service and the woman I spoke with was very kind and quick in her resolution. She made sure we didn’t mistakenly pick up the wrong size. I said: “No, I hand wrote a list with the proper sized packages from the ad and he had the ad with the item circled”. I know, a bit anal, but you see why I did it–in case something like this happened. So, kind customer service woman said the only reason they could refuse to honor the ad is if there was a sign posted next to the item stating there’s a misprint in the current ad. So, I’m right! Kind customer service woman looks up my local ad and agrees that it’s “as plain as day” what the price should be.

So, she apologizes and adds a $5 gift card to our store discount card. She also lets me know that a memo will be sent to the store director so that this matter can be rectified in store. The Mr. will go back for the Cheez-Its tomorrow and now, they’ll be free.

Thanx kind Kroger customer service woman.

“Subject: Wow Wow Wow!!!”

“Wow…u will need tissue for this…..”

“A son asked his father, ‘Dad, will you take part in a marathon with me?’
The father who, despite having a heart condition, says ‘Yes’. They went on to complete the marathon together. Father and son went on to join
other marathons, the father always saying ‘Yes’ to his son’s request of going through the race together. One day, the son asked his father,
‘Dad, let’s join the Ironman together’ to whi ch his father said, ‘Yes.’ For those who didn’t know, Ironman is the toughest triathlon ever. The
race encompasses three endurance events of a 2.4 mile (3.86 kilometer) ocean swim, followed by a 112 mile (180.2 kilometer) bike ride, and
ending with a 26.2 mile (42.195 kilometer) marathon along the coast of the Big Island .
Father and son went on to complete the race together. Click here to view the video of the duo.
http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=8cf08faca5dd9ea45513

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

Now, normally I might not have watched, but I did this time. And normally, I would not need that tissue that every person who forwarded this message said I would need. But….

It was the swim portion of the race where I lost it. This has definitely reinvigorated my outlook on life. Peace.

these brothas…ahem…dance beautifully.

this i took in reference to music videos. now, i wasn’t quite clear on brother nelson’s point for bringing this up. i don’t know if he was justifying why those who choose to appear in and those who choose to watch are celebrating their sexuality. but, i immediately thought of bilal’s “soul sista”. i have always seen that video as more artistic in glorifying Black women’s beauty than gratuitous nudity. however, we all know that most artists–hip hop or otherwise–are not typically glorifying the Black woman’s temple but perpetuating the Jezebel image. i think the young women who patronize the artists who CHOOSE to promote this image with their music and videos are being slightly misled into believing that having their “goodies” on display is a sign of a secure woman. a woman in touch with her sensuality. a sensuality that was to be suppressed in the past because we were only to be seen as matriarchs, the stronghold of our own families and often that of white families that were employers. the women in these videos do not look like most of us in the real world which perpetuates a whole other set of problems, namely that of the white aesthetic. but that’s for another day. having said that, i can appreciate videos like Anthony Hamilton’s “sista big bone”. here’s a more realistic looking Black woman with a real job, truly “holding it down”. this woman is also very much in tuned to her sensuality and the man is also AND she is not scantily clad. side note: i just realized both more positive reflections of Black women i mentioned are songs that use the endearing term “sista”. any coincidence? i think not.

Jill Nelson: we are conditioned to think Black men have suffered more, so we take low so that they can take high.

so true, so true. but obviously neither owns the rights to suffering. another panelist stated, all Black people have suffered almost equally just in different areas. i disagree. Black women have been and remain the most oppressed and marginalized group. i was so glad that the brilliant Melissa Harris-Lacewell, professor of politics and African American studies @ Princeton, mentioned the Combahee River Collective’s statement that says the liberation of Black women will inevitably mean freedom for everyone from every “ism”.

rapper David Banner gave me a headache with his mindless rhetoric. he never had the courage to come out and say he does what he does with only financial gain in mind. neither does he see the need to be socially responsible with his “music” and videos. instead, he sees rappers and Black men as scapegoats for the issue at hand AND he does not see them as part of the solution. he says “we (rappers) are not responsible for raising your kids” and Black women should “pick better mates” and “close their legs”. this is his answer to eliminating misogyny in hip-hop??? as Willona Woods would say: “Negro, PLEASE!”….

Anyway, I was pleased to see Adele on the Today Show this morning singing Chasing Pavements. Lov.er.ly!

I’m making strides on my special project– a black literacy fair for my community. Some aspects are intimidating like communicating with executive directors and whatnot of major non-profit organizations. Preparing a proposal and budget for the event is also proving to stretch my skillset. But it’s all gonna be worth it when this brainchild manifests.

Before I get back to my project, I just wanna send love and positive energy into the universe for Danielle at Black Kool…